What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 00:19
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
How do you feel about the impending end of what Donald Trump calls "the Green New scam"?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
What is the most memorable thing that happened in your college days?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Kuorans can you write a sad story about kpop?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
52~ What are your hobbies?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
What would it take for you to consider yourself a "Swiftie" like Flavor Flav?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
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3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Any that are a turn off?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Nothing too Serious
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Any that are a turn off?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Please share Did you stop?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
*** Questions About Me ***
If you win, what will you make them do?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
29- How superstitious are you?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
*** Random Questions ***
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
The Ice Breaker Questions
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
How old are you? Male or Female?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
Would you read them together?
If yes, what?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
39~ What are your love languages?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
What is your favorite position? Why?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Family Relation Age Play
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?